Just a followup, I bought the ethernet over coax adapter, been running that since Wednesday. I noticed that the throughput on that link went from 28-33mb using powerline to 44-46mb with the DeCA adapter. Fenderman, I had a cable guy come in yesterday and the situation of my office is such that 3 walls lie on top of concrete, the remaining wall is mostly a closet, we might can get cable down to the basement via the closet but I'd have to then run the cable around the room some way to the switch....
So now, in BI runbning on my iPAD over wifi I can now see motion on multiple camera angles with no stutters. The other thing I noticed is that the clock overlay on each cam is updating in near real time so I believe I have a much better connection now. I applied all of the recommended optimizations in the guide I found here also making the PC running BI less stressed.
Thanks!