nayr is very passionate and is pretty much spot on so do please take note of what he says, your problem is the distance, most ipcams used in the forum are for home owners with distances that are not as great as yours, for greater distances you will need a longer length lens BUT
it depends on what you want to see, an overall view of the car with lots of surroundings or your car with detail so you can actually see who is messing with it
each situation is different dependent on where you live, some places crime is rife and the thieves just keep coming, other areas crime is low and the area is pretty secure, then there is the detection algorithm, you asked which feature should be used, use all of them and find out what works best, again it all depends on the situation and no one here can tell you the exact answer without actually being there
i picked that camera as it has a motorised zoom and is excellent at night, however the zoom at full stretch will only get half way so you will still see the car with lots of surroundings and not brilliant resolution on the individuals faces, to get excellent recognition you will need a great night cam with an extended length lens
and as most have pointed out, cheap cams simply will not be good enough in any way, not long enough lens, not good enough image, too far away at night and no detection algorithms and even if they did the distance would probably be too far to use them
as i said you will need great night vision with a longer length lens and that unfortunately is many bucks / pounds